A Hope-Filled Thanksgiving

This weekend was a rare opportunity for me to take some CulturTwining initiative, introducing a cultural tradition to my friends by hosting an event in my home. My housemate and I invited a bunch of friends over for… a Thanksgiving party!

Thanksgiving is, I think, the part of my U.S. heritage of which I am most proud! Well, Thanksgiving and chocolate chip cookies.

We transformed our little flat into a fountain of gratitude as we ate traditional American Thanksgiving dishes in finger food version (sweet potato balls, green bean casserole pastries, stuffing in muffin tins, baby pies, and so on and so forth) and enjoyed each other’s company.

Because many had asked me about the history of Thanksgiving, what the holiday is all about and why Americans celebrate it and why we celebrate it at the end of November, I subjected guests to Charlie Brown’s This is America: The Mayflower Voyagers, which tells the story the way I remember it from when I was a kid, with pilgrims struggling to survive and getting help from the natives, marked by cooperation and gratitude for survival. I love that story and I love that we use that story to remind ourselves to be grateful for the good things in our lives.

In addition, we covered one of our walls with paper and asked each guest to write what they were grateful for. I loved watching the wall fill up over the course of the day, and the positive feeling that came with the act of writing our gratitude. I was told that writing it down was a more culturally-appropriate activity than the traditional go-around-the-table-and-share-what-we’re-thankful-for, as Brits don’t like being put on the spot to share positive things. But when the pressure’s off, writing at their leisure when no one is looking, they find it easier to be honest and positive. We had around 30 guests and each wrote something, so I’ll just share a few particularly interesting ones here…

“God’s love, even helping enemies become friends”

“Lots of lovely supportive friends”

“I’m not being clever but I’m grateful for all the things I can’t say out loud”

“Friends… Food… Laughs… Smiles”

“For friends and family all over the world”

“The father heart of God”

“Health”… then someone else: “I second that”

And me? I second all of those. And I’m thankful that I had such wonderful friends to celebrate my favourite American holiday with.

I guess it’s time to start thinking about Christmas now.

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  • Chris Olson

    What a feast and worthy celebration done right!

    • Thank you! Thanks for stopping by and for the high compliment!

  • soulstops

    What a great way to celebrate, and give thanks with your friends…Nice to meet you, Kati 🙂 Visiting from Emily’s

    • Thanks for stopping by and for your kind words. Yes, there is much to be thankful for. Nice to meet you, too!

  • Kath

    Sounds really encouraging and fun. Well done.

    • Thanks for visiting and thanks for the kind words. Yes, it was fun, and afterwards my housemate agreed that it had a “good vibe”. That must count for something, eh?! 🙂

  • brian miller

    that is a pretty cool idea on covering the walls with paper and inviting everyone to add what they were thankful for…that would be a pretty humbling thing as well to go back and read….

    • Humbling… I hadn’t thought of that adjective to describe it before! But I can see your point… to see that each person has his/her story is truly sweet.

  • Anita Mathias

    What a gorgeous thanksgiving celebration. Hopefully, one year I will host one. And have the prayers of thanksgiving too!

    • Thanks for your words… we’ll see what happens but I’d like to make this Thanksgiving party an annual event. I like the fact that it’s a fresh idea here in the UK. In the US because we all grew up with it, it’s special but it’s very easy to forget its true meaning. Anyway, it was fun and you should definitely do one someday 🙂

  • Lisa notes…

    Watching that wall fill up…wow. That must have been amazing. Love your creativity. Thanks for sharing this, Kati. Makes us all more thankful.

    • Oh yay, it makes you more thankful, what a compliment! Thank you!

  • smoothstones

    I love that you made Thanksgiving happen where you were, for your friends. I’m thankful for you: you teach me so much!

    • admin

      Thank you so much for this! It made my day (sorry it took me a few days to reply to you to tell you this). I’m thankful for you too!

  • Emily Wierenga

    this is beautiful friend. i’m so glad you could have a snippet of home.

    • admin

      Thank you, lovely… it’s so special to me to finally have a home of my own where I can build (or restore) traditions 🙂